Every investor has a moment that changes their career. For me, one of my biggest real estate investing mistakes happened in Oakland back in 2007—yet it also became one of the most valuable lessons of my life.
I purchased a home built in 1902 on 82nd Street. The property looked promising, and like many new investors, I relied heavily on what appeared “fine” on the surface. I sent two guys from my team—Sam and Vincent—to inspect the property. They came back with the famous line that every buyer hears at least once:
“Looks like it’s remodeled.”
That one sentence became the beginning of one of my most expensive real estate investing mistakes.
Lesson 1: Never Assume—Inspect Everything
The facade of the house looked great—fresh paint, new lighting, and updated siding. But the moment I walked inside, the issues began:
Floors were uneven
The house felt like it was leaning
The roofline sagged
Odd smells came from the crawlspace
A deeper inspection revealed:
Rotten subfloor
Failing foundation
Water intrusion
Poor-quality past repairs
Hidden damage covered by cosmetic upgrades
This wasn’t a small fix. It was a complete rebuild of the bottom half of the home.
Lesson 2: Falling in Love With a Property Will Cost You
One of the most common real estate investing mistakes is emotional attachment.
Because the street was familiar to me and the outside looked great, I let my guard down.
Never fall in love with a deal.
A seasoned contractor later told me:
“If you don’t know construction, hire someone who does—or you will learn the hard way.”
Lesson 3: Your Circle Matters — Choose Wisely
Your network can either elevate you or blind you.
Some people will tell you what you want to hear
Others will save you thousands by telling you the truth
You need people around you who challenge you, not comfort you
Before buying ANY home—especially older California homes—verify:
Foundation replacement dates
Permit history
Roof life
Plumbing and electrical condition
Soil issues
Pest or dry rot damage
Due diligence is not optional. It’s survival.
Lesson 4: Budget for the Unknown
The repairs on this one Oakland home easily added six figures to the total investment.
As one mentor told me:
“You don’t need to know construction—but you must respect it.”
Always budget for hidden problems, especially when purchasing:
Homes older than 50 years
Fixers
Properties with previous renovations
Tenant-occupied homes
Surprises WILL come. Plan for them.
Lesson 5: Slow Down. Investigate More. Decide Wisely.
Before you buy:
✔ Double-check who inspected the property
✔ Ask for photos and videos of crawlspaces, attics, roof framing
✔ Evaluate the reliability of your team
✔ Make sure the numbers make sense even in a worst-case scenario
Real estate rewards the prepared—and punishes the careless.
Final Thoughts: Every Investor Pays for Their Education
Some pay through seminars.
Some through mentors.
Others—like me—pay through experience.
This Oakland deal became one of the most expensive but important lessons of my career. It taught me the true cost of skipping due diligence and the danger of trusting appearances.
If you want long-term success, learn from my real estate investing mistakes instead of repeating them.
And as my grandfather always said:
“You are who you hang out with—choose your people wisely.”
